COTD - Temperance (Tarot of Reflections & Modern Medieval)


Ironically this is one of my birth cards and it is something I've always had a challenge manifesting in my own life. I do not tend to take a temperate approach to things. If I did, my path would probably be much smoother but sometimes I wonder if it would still be interesting. Of course from a health perspective (both mental and physical), Temperance would be a useful trait to develop.
So how could I be more balance and temperate in my life? The first step I could take would be in eating a more balanced diet. I have a tendency to overdo all the "bad" things - white bread, white rice, cakes, candy. That is my addiction. I suppose I could be cliched and say I'm a "carb addict" but it's not that simple. I crave sweets, mostly chocolate and dark chocolate at that. I don't get the urge to gorge on pretzels or potato chips (not that I turn them away but I don't crave them). But I do find it very difficult to keep my hands off of chocolate whenever it's in the house. And if I don't have it in the house (which is usually what is suggested), I just find myself craving it even more. It becomes all I can think about. When I look at the patterns to my cravings I realize that I craze chocolate more when I'm stressed or bored.
I also have a tendency to overdo anything in which I become interested - books, Tarot cards, Barbie dolls. I end up owning so many that I almost can't enjoy the ones I have. It's overkill. I do the same thing when it comes to the computer or being online. I spend so much time focusing on that and I end up ignoring more important things (like hubby).
So I need to be more moderate in my habits. Maybe I should adopt Ben Franklin's approach to moderation in all things. I would certainly help me to make healthier choices and that would have a positive impact on my health, my weight and life in general.


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